Golden Shower: Why Do People Relish It?

It was the year 2017 when Donald Trump tweeted something and people were going berserk! His tweet created a lot of controversies and gave way to many new conversations later. And that is how we were introduced to the term- Golden Shower.

What is a golden shower?

At its most core, the term “golden shower” ― also popular as “urine play” or “water sports” ― is lingo for sexual activities which involve urine. It is the act of pissing on or around your partner or partners sometimes, or getting pissed on yourself! Sounds a bit disgusting to a few, we know!

It is kinky, more familiar in the dominant/submissive role-play setting. We would not even name it avant-garde nowadays.  Hotel chains are honestly quite cool with it, as well!

Our point is, golden showers are not the issue in this scenario, and a kink should not be vilified plainly for existing. What is essential is that you need to protect yourself from any sexual act and that consists of the typical golden shower.

There is no way to quantify how many individuals are interested in golden showers, but experts say “there are far more individuals who are interested in this type of play than are prepared to break it,” as is the case with any sex act or BDSM.  

Watersports can promote trust and intimacy, there is weakness both in having an ally urinate in your presence and permitting yourself to be pissed on. There is also something about sharing bodily liquids in general that can be sizzling for some. The case that it is ‘wrong’ and ‘dirty’ can be a turn-on in and of itself.

The right way to perform this sexual act!

  1. Get consent! You need this for any type of sex act, but “are you okay with experimenting with water sports” is certainly a conversation best had before the foreplay kicks off, not in the heat of the moment. What is a turn-on to you may not be hot to your partner, because that is just how passions work. Make sure you are on the same page first and then go forward.
  1. Try making a plan and stick to the plan, and then make sure you are taking common cleanliness into account. Is this something you want to try out in the shower? In your bed? On the floor? Sticking to the set plan assures all the circumstances of consent are being met, and no one is stunned in a way they are unprepared for.
  1. Be aware that urine is not exactly infertile, as the myth goes. Even before piss hits the layer of your skin, where bacteria lives, it includes bacteria that should not be devoured and should be kept away from any open cuts or bruises you may have. We would advise you not to FREAK out if some urine inadvertently gets in your mouth — just also do not make a huge habit out of drinking it.
  1. Make sure that you rehydrate once you are done.

Is it common to have an interest in golden showers?

This specific kink is exceptionally ordinary, according to the experts. “Urophilia — golden showers, pee play, and the like — is such a generic fetish that there are pee parties full of people who want to delve into this,” according to sex experts. 

Another very prominent health expert stated, “It is so normal! People love to be urinated on. And a whole lot of them also like to drink it.” In fact, according to an Australian survey, it was found that around four percent of men have a pee play kink, and porn site stats show the most popular searches for the word “golden shower” (along with similar terms) boosted enormously in 2017 after it was accused that Donald Trump enjoyed watersports.

Are golden showers safe?

“Concerning skin contact, urine will generally cause no harm if there are no fractures, broken skin, or open injuries,” as per health experts. If this is, nevertheless, the case, then urine can cause infection if your partner peeing has a bacterial infection and the pee comes into contact with your injuries and mucous membranes.”

So, if you are relishing golden showers with somebody whose health status you are not sure of, make sure there are no open injuries on you, and ask them to target somewhere besides your mouth, such as on your belly. It is better to discuss your health with your companion; professional dominatrixes are anyway on it.

“With anything where you are exchanging bodily liquids, you need to make sure that you are not ill or have any type of infection. It is also actually necessary to hydrate. The other aspect that you should contemplate, is how near you are to someone’s mouth. The only way to avoid that is to be higher up,” according to health experts.

This is what you should know before trying it out

Other than clean-up and expected risks from the exchange of the liquid, should this be something you want to explore, you just have to make peace with your eagerness to try giving or getting a golden shower and then speak about it with your partner or partners so you can enjoy one from a place of mutual ecstatic consent.

“Possessing your sexual manifestation from the get-go will put you on the more strong ground once you are in a relationship to be able to have uncomfortable or arduous talks about sexuality and how your sexual manifestation may evolve,” in the words of sex experts. 

Now that you know all about pee play, there is solely one thing left to do if you want to try it for yourself — go find a companion who is into this fetish, too. Hope you have fun.

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