Get Pleasured Like Never Before: The Must-Have Guide For Rimming

Out of many ways of giving and getting pleasure, a rim job is one of them. Rim job or rimming is a sexual intimacy between or among parties that involves oral to oral contact. This article will reveal all the facts about giving a rim job. So, if you are someone who is looking forward to doing this job, this one’s for you!

What is rimming? 

Rim job is also known as analingus, is the sexual act of giving pleasure orally to someone’s anal. The oral-to-oral contacts involve sucking, licking, kissing, and some other action.  

The rim job can be given by everyone. This sexual activity does not depend upon the sexual identity. Though, most of us believe that anus intimacy is only a thing for the “gay”. But this is a misconception. The only thing that is required here is a butt and another person to do the job. 

Risks involved in a rim job

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Though it is considered to be safe for most of the parts, it does involve some risk factors:

  1. STIs

Whatever the sexual act may be, if direct contact is made, it is better to practice it safely. 

Some of the common sexually transmitted infections or STIs that can be transferred through a rim job are given below: 

  • Genital warts
  • Herpes
  • Gonorrhea
  • Hepatitis A and B 
  • Syphilis 

You can use a dental dam to protect you and your partner from getting STIs. 

  1. Bacteria 

Maintaining cleanliness throughout giving a rim job is the most important part. This will present the spreading of bacteria. Digestive parasites and bacteria, such as E. coli and Salmonella, from the person’s mouth, can pass through the anus. This can make you sick if you ingest it. 

Apart from getting sick, the bacteria settled on the anus can also cause infections to the vagina. Avoid getting infected in the vagina through the tongue, sex toys, penis, or fingers. 

Are anal and rimming the same?

NO! if someone is agreeing to rim that does not mean they are agreeing to anal too. you can enjoy getting a rim job while standing or in a foreplay position. 

If you are not comfortable in some sexual positions, talk to your partner before getting started. This is better to avoid some sort of disagreement in between intercourse. 

When to avoid a rim job?

Though rimming can be highly enjoyable, there are some times it is better to be avoided. You should deny a rim job if you or your partner are going to any of the following health conditions: 

  • Diarrhea 
  • Gastric issues
  • Constipation
  • Cold sores
  • Digestive infection
  • Bleeding
  • Open sores such as hemorrhoids 

Opening up about your health condition is a bold move itself. This will also prevent any sort of embarrassment in between the sexual intercourse. 

Should you consider landscape? 

WHAT IS RIMMING

Landscape means having a hairless butt or middle of butt cheeks. Though, it is perfectly normal to go for a rim job like the way you are. If you feel comfortable or unsightly, you should get a wax or use clippers to remove the hair. 

Here are the pros and cons involved if you are going to get bare:

Pros to consider:
  1. Feeling it all: removal of the hair and clearing out the area will open you up to all the sensations. The stimulation gets even more intense when there is nothing between the rimmer’s tongue and rimmie’s butt.  
  2. Cleanliness: though having hair in the anal can also be clean, but it certainly makes the job easier. Having a clean anal means not having any presence of toilet paper bits or towel fluff and even poo can also stick on to the hairs. 
  3. Less distraction: having a hairless anal means you will get no distractions during the rim job. You would not worry about the looks of your anal or of the impression you are getting from your partner. This means you will be enjoying yourself fully without any hovering thoughts or pressure. 
Cons to consider: 
  1. Irritation on the skin: Irrespective of the method used, removal of hair increases the chances of getting  skin irritation. As the anal is very sensitive and delicate that does not have any history of contact with the hair removal tools. So, even if you choose to remove your hair, wait for some before getting into the rim job. 
  2. Ingrown hairs: regrowth of the hair gives serious pain to the butt. During the time of regrowth, some itching, pain, and prickling are involved. Though it will only happen for some time. 
  1. Risk of getting infected: hair removal procedure is no less than a trauma on the skin.  This is similar to getting injured on the knee or any part of the body. irritation or injury always opens the door for infection on the skin. Make sure to keep the area clean after the hair removal is done.

Are condoms important? 

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A condom can be a bonus for anyone who feels uncomfortable for direct anus-to-tongue contact. In such a case, dental dams can also be used to create a barrier. There are also tongue condoms available to avoid direct contact. 

For a better experience, you are free to go for a lube. This will make the sliding of fingers and tongue easy and enjoyable. 

Best positions for a rim job

Some of the obvious choices are the doggie style or “four on the floor”. 

If you are the one performing the rimming, you should: 

  1. Keel behind the person
  2. Using your hands, find your partner’s butt and set yourself in the best angle. 
  3. Again, use your hands to wide open the partner’s butt. 

How to work with your tongue?

  1. Make slow yet long licks with your tongue against the partner’s anus.
  2. Now explore what else can you do with your tongue? Such as stiffening or relaxing it. 
  3. Switch between up and down and side to side. 
  4. Using moderate pressure, point and push your tongue against the anus. 

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